Don’t cry over spilled milk girls.  Go out and have a cocktail.  Have two.  Just have a designated driver with you (always thinking of your safety).  Don’t throw yourself a pity party.  Throw yourself a PAR-TAY!  That’s right.  If you have gone through a break up then you deserve to celebrate.  You ask, “What BHR fabulous girls are you talking about? I want to cry and stay in bed all day long!”  Exactly why you need to get up, take a shower and get out of your house and celebrate.  Celebrate being single.  Celebrate all of the new guys you are going to attract (and for our lovely male readers, all of the girls you will attract).  Celebrate that you are no longer with a guy that doesn’t appreciate your awesome-ness (and I know you have lots of awesome-ness to give).  Celebrate being you!

Look we all have one shot at this thing called life.  You could waste a day being upset over some loser that doesn’t know what a good thing he is giving up on.  Or you can get out there, get back on the horse and ride into the sunset with Mr. Right (I couldn’t resist).  There is a good guy (or gal) out there for each of us.  We have to value ourselves enough to not settle for someone treating us like dirt and wasting our time (sorry, I’m on my own rant right now).  You need to believe that your soul mate is out there.  He wants to find you, just as bad as you want to find him.  Are you with me on this one!  Say, Go Team!!

So what have we learned from this ever informative post?  Drink!  Yippee!  Well, drink but in moderation because hangovers are not fun especially when you go overboard.  Ok, what is the more important lesson for today…Don’t stay with a jerk that doesn’t want to be with you.  Life is too short.  Find someone you want to be with and who wants to be with you.  He’s out there.  I know it.  Good luck, and let me know how it goes!!!