Ok, so you have been dumped. And it doesn’t make sense. Especially, because the person who dumped you was so into you, and then broke up with you out of nowhere. Even worse? They didn’t even really have a reason. Well, you must investigate and find out, right? Wrong.

It is our instinct to want to know why we get tossed aside. If you think about it, the pain from a break up really isn’t so much about longing for the other person, it is about the unanswered question as to why that person no longer wants to be with you! You, and your ego, want some answers.

BHR is asking you not to spend your time and energy obsessing, dissecting, and worrying over a situation that no longer serves you. If you had the strength to let go of all of the questions, and just look forward to your new future, your healing process would turn into Godspeed!

If you are meant to know all the answers, they will present themselves at the right time. So, challenge yourself, and look forward to brighter days ahead. Who knows? By the time you get your answers, you may no longer care what they are.

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