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Don’t Look For The Oasis

After a break up, we are particularly vulnerable. We miss the company of our significant other and we miss the familiarities that come along with dating someone. Simply put, the loss of a relationship – no matter how short it lasted – brings a void.   People fill this void differently. While some people prefer to fly solo after a…

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There’s No Me In Break Ups

Sometimes, we blame ourselves for breakups. We try to find reasons why we believe we caused the breakup and often fill our minds with phrases like "I wasn’t pretty/handsome enough," or "I didn’t have enough money." If you didn’t do anything wrong, don’t blame yourself for a breakup!   People break up because a relationship doesn’t work, and not because…

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Keep A Lid On It

When you are heartbroken, it is easy to bash your ex. It feels good to talk trash, reveal their dirty secrets, divulge information that was once confided in you. Why not? They hurt you, right? That may be the case, but doing these things may hurt you in the long run.   To others, you probably look petty. Opting to…

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When Should You Let Go Of A Relationship?

When do you actually let go of a relationship?  If you are no longer happy, let go.  If the relationship is no longer moving forward, let go.  If you know that this is not a passing phase and you want to get on with your life, let go.  It can be very hard to get out of a bad relationship,…

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In The Dog House: How To Break Up With Your Ex’s Pet

They look at you with loving eyes. You miss the warmth of their embrace. They love to share long walks on the beach and warm meals. No wonder it is hard to break up with your ex’s pooch!  We often forget that when we break up with someone, we may also have to break up with a pet.  This is…

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