Sex with the Ex
Should you have sex with your ex? NOOOOOOOOOO!!! Did I make that clear enough? NOOOOOOOO!!! Please for the love of God, do not have sex with your ex. He doesn’t want you. He just wants to get laid.
Having sex with your ex will always lead to one thing…NOTHING! Along with a healthy dose of despair and hating yourself more afterwards, sex with your ex is a bad thing. There is no such thing as closure sex. If you still want this person, and I know you do, having a roll in the hay will only lead you into the manure pile and not into green pastures like you are hoping.
He will not take you back because you blew his socks off (literally or not) in bed. He knows how great you are in bed, that’s why he is calling. It is outside of the bedroom that he does not want to be around you. And that is just plain mean of him. And that is why he should stay your ex and does not deserve to have sex with you. Save the goods for someone else. Someone who wants to hold your hair back when you are puking because you are sick with the flu. This guy does not want to do that anymore, if he ever did.
There will never be a more defining moment for him than the moment he calls you and you turn him down. He knows you are desperate to get back together with him. He is a vulture and is trying to feed on your half dead carcass and pretends to breathe life into you by dangling a carrot, or his small penis. This is not going to bring you back from your nightmare that has become your reality. You will forever stay in his mind because you turned him down, not because you caved and gave into him.
You want him to want you. And you can only do that by not giving in. This is the only way to take back your power. You have the upper hand. You went out on top (again not literally). He’ll never know the satisfaction of being with you again. He doesn’t deserve it. And you deserve to be with someone who wants you for more than just a 30 minute time block. Plus, I’m just sayin’, you don’t know where his carrot has been lately.
Trust me, you will thank me later for this, sex with your ex is always a big fat NO NO!
- by Broken Heart Rehab
- posted at 11:32 pm
- May 6, 2009