Just like relationships, sometimes you have to break up with friends. Often times – especially if it is a "college" or "childhood" – we stick it out for no other reason than loyalty or, even worse, longevity. What we have to remember is that friendships are not collectibles, and unless they grow and enrich your life, it’s time to part ways. So just what are the top 4 reasons we find as legit reasons to tell that "friend" that you’re just not into them? Here is our list:

1. It is a one sided friendship. It is their world and you’re just living in it. You find yourself accommodating them all of the time.

2. It is boring. Life is too short to be bored. We are cerebral creatures and need stimuli. If the most stimulating thing your friend has to say is how many calories she at for lunch, it’s time to say "check please."

3. Your friend is mean. This is the most obvious reason to break up with a friend. However, you would believe how much bullying people put up with just because they went to kindergarten/college/or any other school environment with someone! Next time your "friend" criticizes your appearance or hits on your significant other, ask them to explain why you’re still friends.

4. They guilt you into things. Someone who truly respects you, your time, and your commitments would never try to make you feel guilty for not going with them somewhere or not doing something for them. Say bon voyage next time your "friend" gives you a guilt trip.

Just remember, learning to let go is an important quality to have. When the bad outweighs the good, sometimes you just have to do it.

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