Have you caught your significant other getting frisky with someone else? If you answered yes, don’t spend your time carving your name into the leather seats of his or her car (shout out to Carrie Underwood fans!); spend your time figuring out how you’re going to rehab your heart through positive, fun activities that you enjoy!

There are too many eligible daters in this word in this world to waste your time with someone that doesn’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated. We don’t mean to get all “Dr. Phil” on you, but, through our own experiences, we know that the best way to heal a broken heart is to put the pieces together yourself.

This recovery period doesn’t involve a detailed analysis of why the person did it. We know why: she or he has no self-control. As much as they blame it on the ah-ah-ah-cohol (we’re full of music references, eh?), you need your own time to regroup and figure out if the person can give you what you want from the relationship. This does not involve asking:

(1) Are you still talking to the person you cheated with?

(2) Why did you cheat?

(3) What did I do wrong?

(4) When did it start?

(5) How many times did you cheat?

These questions are counterproductive, and won’t make you feel better. The only question you should be asking him is when he’s going to take his toothbrush out of your toothbrush holder.

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